How do I get connected?
- BLOGS. Everyone has a blog (look for this on the left column under "Add New" and click on Blog. Write in your blog regularly, sharing information about who you are, what you think and what you are up to. Read other's blogs and make comments that reveal what you have in common, or how you think and feel about the topic being discussed.
- Answer the daily question.
- Upload music (go to left column, "ADD NEW", click music). This tells a lot about who you are.
- Upload a picture or video. It feels more like we are interracting with a real person that way.
- Join one of the many groups, and participate with comments, sharing, and posts, blogs, and information about books, places, activities, experiences, etc... related to the group.
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The unique thing about TheLCafe.com is that it is all about connecting. To connect you must share. Take a risk and put yourself out there. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised by the outcome!!
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How do I change my Status?
On left column under your name you will see "YOUR STATUS." Next to this is the word "CHANGE." Click CHANGE. Enter your status in the box and click "update."
How do I change my Profile Picture?
On top tabs, click "My Profile." Scroll down below your wall and click on "Edit Profile." Click "Choose a Photo." Click Browse. Open the file with your updated profile picture. Click "Open". Click "Update."
How do I update my relationship status?
On top tabs, click "My Profile." Scroll down below your wall and click on "Edit Profile." Make necessary change and click "Update."
How do I use the chat function on this site for groups and 1:1?
1. On the bottom bar of every page is a "chat bar." On the far left corner of your screen there is a blue circle which takes you home to your profile when clicked, next to that is a rectangle with a blue arrow which is the group chat function. And on the far right is the 1:1 chat OR VIDEO function.
2. To initiate a group chat, go to the bottom rectangle and name your group. Then go to the right 1:1 chat and invite women you'd like to join you there. (They need to be visible in that box or they are not online).
3. To initiate a video chat with another person, go to the "who's online" box and look for the video icon on the top bar of that box. Highlight a person's name with whom you want to video chat and clickon that video icon.
How do I change my Location?
On top tabs, click "My Profile." Scroll down below your wall and click on "Edit Profile." Make necessary change and click "Update."
How do I change my Nickname?
On top tabs, click "My Profile." Scroll down below your wall and click on "Edit Profile." Make necessary change and click "Update."
How do I add an Event to theLcafe?
Click on the tab "Events." Go to links - to the far right click on "Create New." Enter information and then click "Create Event" at bottom of page. Your event will be sent to a moderator for approval, and once approved it will appear live on the site.
How can I easily locate women near my location?
Click on top tab "MEMBERS." Click "Advanced Search." Enter your zip code or city name in the "Location Search" box and specify any criteria such as "relatoinship status," etc.. and click "Search." A list of women meeting this criteria will appear.
What size video can I upload?
Each video segment must be 250mg or less. You can upload as much video as you would like (as long as it does not include any pornographic or illegal material), simply separate files in chunks of 250mg.
How do I publish an article to the Cafe Blog?
1. Go to your "blog" icon on the left side where it says "add new" - and click on "blog."
2. Enter any descriptive words that someone might search to find this article.
3. Set the date you wish to publish it.
4. Then set it as "published."
5. Click "yes" if you want others to be able to comment on the blog.
6. Click "yes" to submit to the magazine.
7. Pick your category (and let me know if you need me to create a new one), and submit.
8. This will then go to me for approval. Once I approve it it will go live.
How do I cancel my account?
1. Go to MY PROFILE
2. Scroll down left side of page and click MY ACCOUNT
3. Click EDIT ACCOUNT
4. Scroll to bottom and click CANCEL ACCOUNT
In the event you are still charged by paypal, log into your paypal account and cancel the subscription for theLcafe.com. This should do the trick! If you have questions, contact Michele at michele at micheleomara dot com.